Do you have a patron saint? My Mama used to be devotee of Saint Anthony De Padua. Every time she goes to church she will wear her "abito" brown dress and a white belt symbolizing the image of St. Anthony. She encourage me to be a devotee to Our Lady of Lourdes but I didn't happen at all. She always do the novena for St. Anthony during his feast day. Our dear saints will help us also if we pray for them.
Happy All Saint's Day.